Up: [[Values]]
Created: 2025-03-09
Updated: 2026-03-02
**Calm, clear, and grounded; avoiding extremes of emotion or action; the marriage of masculine and feminine qualities**
The corresponding desired feeling for Inner Harmony is Ease — a relaxed and accepting trust in myself and my body.
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I’m ditching my previous value of [[Being]] as too amorphous, too hard to do a single thing with. I’ve held that value for over two years and gotten absolutely nowhere.
Instead, the value I need is for Inner Harmony. I saw the term when I was reviewing My Top Five Values According to an Assessment - 2023. I’m not sure it’s the best label, but it will certainly do for now.
By inner harmony I’m referring to Hestia’s qualities of being [[Calm, Clear, Well-Possessed]].
I’m talking about avoiding my all-or-nothing extremes of either action or emotion.
I’m thinking about balancing masculine and feminine qualities.
And I’m referring to being grounded and acting from my body.
Inner peace matters more than anything. When I have it, it’s easy for me to be creative. Yes, and also easy for me to eat healthfully.
Pay attention to the rhythms of my giving. I can only give from a place of fullness so I need to have times totally devoted to refilling the well.
Avoid negative self-talk. Develop my inner strength and resources.
Be grounded in my body. Focus on what needs healing in me. Learn to do from a place of stillness. This is the major challenge of my third act. (Astrologer Joe)